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Need Some Ideas for Carving the Pumpkin?

Jack O'lantern

Jack O'lantern Concepts via Grow Spot

If you’re like me, it is always a last minute thing and I’m scratching my head for ideas. Alas the web (especially Flicker) has a basketful of good ideas to spark your next work of art. Some are definitely a little advanced for my sculpting ability but it’s worth a try.

I just try to remind myself that the kids are going to remember the family tradition of watching dad carve up the pumpkin while getting ready to trick or treat and hopefully they won’t remember how awful looking they were. What am I saying, they will remember and tease me forever more.

22 Inspirational Jack O’lanterns vis a vis GrowSpot.Com

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CPSC Offers Recalls and Heeds Warnings for Halloween

At a glance Halloween seems to be a fairly safe and straight forward family affair. Dress the kids up. Let them get a bag or two of candy. Take some snapshots for the family album. Clean up (especially that rotten jack o’lantern on your front step) and move on to Thanksgiving, right?

Well according to the United States Consumer Product Safety Commission there are some safety tips to follow this Trick or Treat Season. I will offer the unabridged version of their tips as they seem to (rightly) focus on a few obvious hazards.

Decorations Safety;

  • Whenever possible do not use candles and when you do keep them away from kids, general foot-traffic and their costumes.
  • When prepping your house for Trick-or-Treaters, clean the pathway leading up to your front door of all obstacles and make sure it is well lit.
  • Don’t overload extension cords and only use healthy UL tested products

Costumes Safety;

  • If wearing a mask, make sure they can breath well enough and make sure they can see (including peripheral vision)
  • If they are going to be out on the streets Trick or Treating make sure they carry a flashlight and have reflective or light colored fabric or material on their outfit.
  • Choose costume that are “flame resistant” which means they will be less likely to catch on fire.
  • Weapons (swords, knives, et al.) should be soft and bendable or collapsible in nature.
  • Make sure costume is weather appropriate, which may mean additional layers under outfit.

Treats;

  • Make sure parent/guardian(s) check all candy, toys or treats (especially for young ones) for tampering or choke hazard

Crate & Barrel Halloween TealightsCasper the Friendly Ghost Figurines

Like most holidays, a few products are being recalled for safety reasons. Crate & Barrel out of Northbrook, IL has recalled thirty thousand Halloween Ghost Tealight Burners for burn and fire hazards. There have been five reports of the tealight holders igniting and one report of the holder becoming excessively hot. Two consumers suffered burns to the hand. Just by looking at this product (above), I can tell you without doubt that many more people have been burned by this product – not necessarily bad ones but burns nonetheless.

Coyne’s & Company, out of Minneapolis MN, is recalling all fourteen thousand of their Casper the Friendly Ghost figurines due to excessive amounts of lead. These figurine stand approximately three inches tall and are made from resin and paper. Please check the original press release for model numbers and additional details as there are many different figurine designs included in this recall.

Sited Links;
Tag Home Decor | Ghost Tealight Recall Information

Halloween Figurines Recalled by Coyne’s & Company for Lead Hazard
Ghost Tealight Holders Recalled by Trade Associates Group and Crate & Barrel…
CPSC 2008 Halloween Safety Tips

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What Sounds Should My Toddler Be Saying?

October 30th, 2008 | 3 Comments | Posted in fyi, health, parent stuff
speech and articulation development chart

Phonological Development Chart

With three young children at various stages of development my wife and I easily forget what milestones each kid should be hitting. Our oldest son was a late “talker” while our middle child is an early one and our youngest is a “solid” babbler (he’s just a few months old) and seems to have a lot to say.

The chart above shows what the normal range of mastery is for particular phonemes in the English language. In a nutshell, phonemes are individual unit sounds needed to consistently and completely pronounce a word in a given language. An example the “zh” sound in the middle of the word “measure”is considered a phoneme.

Studies show that a lot of these speech and articulation milestones have a fair amount of wiggle room to them. It should also be pointed out that boys develop language slow than girls, but by 8 years old both boys and girls (even late talkers) are able to form all phonemes. A study of 1,766 toddlers, the researchers found that boys are three times as likely as girls to be late-talking toddlers, but by age 7, the differences disappeared. Obviously, some kind of mechanism kicks in for the boys.

I can speak from experience that this “wiggle room” creates a bit of concern for those of us with late talkers because there is a wait-and-see aspect to the problem. As a parent, you want to keep a keen eye on milestones and learn the facts.

[Speech] Delay vs. Disorder
A child is said to have an articulation delay when the sounds are acquired in the expected sequence but the developmental errors persist beyond the age we expect (e.g. when a four year old continues to say “tar” for car or “nake” for snake). A child is said to have an articulation disorder when their error patterns and/or sound acquisition sequence deviate from those seen in most children their age. A phonological disorder occurs when error patterns are more severe and affect an entire group of sounds with similar characteristics. In all cases, a referral to a Speech Language Pathologist is indicated.

A referral is indicated in the presence of the following:

  • Limited production of consonant sounds by two years.
  • Poor sound imitation skills or lack of interest in speech by two years.
  • Child lacks interest in shared or reciprocal play by their first birthday.
  • Difficulty understanding a child’s speech beyond the third birthday.
  • Child has unusual or atypical error patterns in his/her speech
  • Child has typical error patterns but they persist beyond the expected age
  • A child has not mastered all sounds by the end of their sixth year. [*courtesy Lowry Speech Therapy]

Since there is a spectrum of reasons why your child’s language may be blooming later than others, we have found a number of games and activities that help our kids exercise those phonemes. First and foremost, my wife and I make a concerted effort to talk about and describe our day-to-day doings out loud with great detail and enthusiasm. We ask our kids lots of questions and try and field as many “why, daddy?” responses as time permits. We don’t water down the process either. Meaning, we use our full vocabulary.

And of course we read to our kids. We have piles of books in their rooms and where they play. As the dad, I try and incorporate language into daily play, sports and activities for the boys. What it all boils down to is my wife and I have become veritable “chatter boxes.” We crack each other up. Dinner-time is practically like listening to a Robert Altman movie with all of us talking over each other.

If you are concerned about your child’s speech/language development you should obviously talk to you pediatrician. In the most serious cases the lack of language development can point to bigger problems like Autism, Apraxia, Hypotonia or something else. Learn what the signs are. Dads, talk to your kids and more importantly read to your kids.

Sited Links;
Lowry Speech Therapy

RedOrbit.Com | Late Talking Toddlers Catch Up By Age 7
Wikipedia | Phoneme

Related Links;
Scientific American | What Explain Toddlers’ Linguistic Leap? Math
Overton Speech and Language Center (similiar development chart – for comparison)
Cognitive Daily | Does the Use of Hand Gestures Slow Language Learning?
Wikipedia | Phonological History of English Language

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Modern Project Table from EcoTots

Cocoa Project Table from ecotots
Take a stand for the environment (or in this case a seat) with this eco-friendly craft/project table.

No two toddlers sit the same way, which was the inspiration for the ecotots Play Table and Stool. Whether she sits, stands or kneels, this Play Table and Stool will always be just the right height, and simple no-tools assembly method will ensure mom and dad don’t get a work-out putting it together.

    • 100% FSC wood
    • Rainforest Alliance Certified
    • 100% formaldehyde-free birch plywood SmartWood®
    • Eco-friendly, non-toxic, water-based stains
    • UV cured finishes minimize greenhouse gases
    • No tools or hardware required
    • All materials sourced in North America
    • Wholly designed and manufactured in USA
    • Member of the SFC (Sustainable Furniture Council)
    • Lifetime construction guarantee

      Stools nest underneath table and out of the way when not in use. Stools sold separately.

      $240 bucks [+ shipping] at moolka.com

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      Raise Bully-Proof Children

      October 28th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in fyi, health, the good, the bad, and the otherwise

      kids on playground
      I think most of us dads think of the “being bullied” as a right-of-passage for most children. It sets the kid up for the “real world” or otherwise teaches them important life coping skills. The flip-side of the argument points out that victims of bullies are more likely to suffer from depression and low self esteem, well into adulthood, and the bullies themselves are more likely to engage in criminal behavior later in life.

      Is there a effective way to prevent your child from being a victim? How do you draw the line between child or adolescent teasing and truly hurtful behavior? Will your kids be too ashamed or scared to tell you that they are being bullied?

      The first thing you will need to do is talk with your kids and explain to them what bullying is;

      Direct Bullying:

      • hitting, tripping, shoving, pinching, excessive tickling;
      • verbal threats, name calling, racial slurs, insults;
      • demanding money, property, service; and
      • stabbing, choking, burning and shooting.

      Indirect Bullying:

      • rejecting, excluding, isolating;
      • ranking or rating, humiliating;
      • manipulating friends and relationships;
      • writing hurtful or threatening e-mails and postings on web sites; and
      • blackmailing, terrorizing, and proposing dangerous dares.

      Let them know that if someone any of these things – that it is bullying. Now that they know what it is you need to empower them with healthy tactics to avoid or confront the bullies.

      Teach your child what they should say if someone starts teasing them. Give them phrases like, “Stop teasing me!” or simply  “Leave me alone,” to use when bullying happens. With the young ones we’ve taught them to say things like, “I don’t like it when you do that that,” which has effectively left the kid stunned.

      Let them know there are times to be silent and just walk away. Let them know that if any bullying happens they need to find an adult and tell them. Chances are if they confide in you chances are it is bugging them pretty bad. They also need to tell you right right away and with this comes a very important distinction between tattling More »

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      Teddy Bear Redux

      October 27th, 2008 | 1 Comment | Posted in cool schtuff, dad recomendation, eco-friendly, kid stuff, toys

      Tedde Bears

      Tedde is giving the traditional teddy bear a makeover with updated designs, mischievous personalities and even a new spelling. Tedde believes that a teddy bear should not look and feel like it just fell off an assembly line and its mission is to rid the world of factory-made bear clones.

      The Tedde collection includes Teddes, Tedde Gold, Bear Food and Tiny Teddes for your pocket. Teddes are limited production and constructed by hand with textiles like mohair, felt, wool, hand spun yarn, vinyl, silk, canvas, recycled cotton, linen and cashmere.

      Average cost about $35 bucks (+shipping) at Tedde.Com

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