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The cough & cold conundrum – Should they stay home?

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Every parent, has struggled with this problem at some time, do I send my marginally sick kid to daycare or school or should I keep them home? The boogery truth about this is most of us parents have probably dropped off our dosed kid to school wondering if they were going to be able to make it through the day or would we get a call from the school nurse saying that we need to pick up our feverish kid.

Most adults are likely to have a common cold two to four times a year. Children, especially preschoolers, may have a common cold as many as More »

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This Week in the World of Parenting

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  • Nancy Shute at U.S. News & World Report did an interesting blog posting on a few ways to ensure your breastfed baby is getting the (newly defined) proper vitamin D in their diet [*that would be the breast milk diet], including supplements for newborns as well as kids and teenagers, fortified milk, cod liver oil and she forgot to mention broccoli which is high in vitamin D.
  • I stumbled across a wonderful post by Starr King Elementary School in the San Fransisco area describing Five Easy Ways to Earn Money for Your School.” Great ideas that I am going to being sharing at the next P.T.A. meeting.
  • The fine folks at the San Fransisco Gate posted an article this week aptly titled,Hey Kids, Go Outside and PlayThis article describes the pitfalls of kids spending too much time indoors. Good stuff.
  • Also, over at Datamation, writer Mike Elgan posits some interesting thoughts on how social networking websites (using Facebook as the prime example) are endangering the commonly head concept of the nuclear family in his article, How Facebook Is Destroying the ‘Nuclear Family’. I will leave it up to you whether that is a good thing or bad.
  • And with Halloween quickly approaching I have been sifting through the sands of the web for that prefect low maintenance solution. Over at Associated Content I found an interesting list of Single Dad and Son Halloween Costumes Ideas. My favorite is definitely – The Man with the Yellow Hat and Curious George.

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Take the Family to Dume Point Beach

September 24th, 2007 | 1 Comment | Posted in dad recomendation, family, los angeles, parent stuff, road trip
Malibu Beach, Dume Point

Always in search of the best beach, my wife and I with kids-in-tow recently rolled over to this wonderful state beach. It has a sharper than usual slope to the water but provides a fun and dramatic surf for the kids to play in. Boogie boards dash the horizon. You may see an occasional sea lion and if your lucky a starlet strolling the sands.

With a car full of all the necessary toys, food and equipment the paid parking is perfect. For eight dollars, we were able to park right up to the edge of the sand within fifty feet of our claimed spot in the sand (dads read: not too much schlepping for me!) and this was on a Saturday. You can park for free on the road leading up to the beach or back on the Pacific Coast Highway and hike it, but with kids and coolers and such, I highly advise the paid parking area.

The people watching is great, too – you have a wonderful cross-section of Angelenos enjoying the surf.

Related Links;
Overheard At The Beach
California Beaches | Dume State Beach

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‘Two-Child Policy’ In The Future?

I found this somewhat fascinating article claiming that a more direct way to curb greenhouse gas issue is to put a two child cap on families, especially in developed countries. Interesting. I know China has a One-Child Policy but that is their way of dealing with their ongoing overpopulation pandemic. Actually, they can have a second child but they must be spaced three to four years apart and you a required by the government to pay a hefty tax and (I believe) the parents then are responsible for paying the health insurance for that second child. Ultimately, this creates a situation where only the rich can afford a second child.

…if couples had two children instead of three they could cut their family’s carbon dioxide output by the equivalent of 620 return flights a year between London and New York.” ~ John Guillebaud, Co-Chairman OPT & Emeritus Professor Family Planning, University College London

From a purely logical point of view I understand this point of view, but I can’t see it being implemented (at least) here in the U.S. A Washington D.C. based non-profit, the Population Connection (formerly Zero Population Growth) has touted these claims for over thirty years. If it is in fact true that we (U.S.) represent 4% of the world population and use 25% of the world’s energy resourses, and road transportation is the fastest growing and most damage of the CO2 sources; I think more can be achieved in the short-term (and ultimately the longer-term) by developing a mass produced non-combustion/non-fossil fuel burning vehicle. Although it may be prudent to consider some type of long-term government-based incentive or tax benefit for two child families.

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Paternity Leave – State By State and Federal Law

February 2nd, 2007 | No Comments | Posted in alert!, dad, the good, the bad, and the otherwise

My son, Jude was just born a little over two weeks ago, and I was allowed to take a Paternity Leave (one week paid)! It was a much needed break from work to help my wife and (now) oldest son, Jackson, adjust to the new addition to the family.

Yes, I feel very lucky. My employer offers a paid leave. I don’t know if other dad’s or dad’s-to-be realize that there is federal and in some cases state legislation in place to allow dads to take time off to help out when a child is born. I will include some links that were helpful to me when I was researching the subject.

Related Links;
U.S. Department of Labor: Compliance Assistance Family and Medical Leave Act

State Family and Medical Leave Laws

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